Why forgive?
For some odd reason, I cannot remembner many ways people 
have wronged me. I know they have, but I do not remember, 
neither do I try. In what I've learned of psychology, 
forgiveness is often a key element in solving 
psychological dilemmas (your nervous disorders, illogical 
hangups, unreasonableness, attitude problems). Forgive 
yourself, forgive those who have wronmged you, even those 
who do not see they have hurt you. That way, you can move 
on without anger poisoning your life, seeping deep into 
your heart and mind, and spoiling many a moment of joy 
and peace. It is my theory that looking at all the 
mistakes you have made from others eyes can help. Looking 
at the situation through the eyes of the offender may also 
help. "Forgive my transgressions as I forgive those who 
transgress against me."