Why forgive?
For some odd reason, I cannot remembner many ways people
have wronged me. I know they have, but I do not remember,
neither do I try. In what I've learned of psychology,
forgiveness is often a key element in solving
psychological dilemmas (your nervous disorders, illogical
hangups, unreasonableness, attitude problems). Forgive
yourself, forgive those who have wronmged you, even those
who do not see they have hurt you. That way, you can move
on without anger poisoning your life, seeping deep into
your heart and mind, and spoiling many a moment of joy
and peace. It is my theory that looking at all the
mistakes you have made from others eyes can help. Looking
at the situation through the eyes of the offender may also
help. "Forgive my transgressions as I forgive those who
transgress against me."