How do I give advice?
The last thing I ever thought would happen is for me to be 
asked for advice by others. It denotes a measure of trust 
and respect that must be earned. However, my friends tell 
me that my open and real nature helps me to build that 
respect. Whenever I give advice, I first listen to the 
problem at hand. It may be big or small, but I have yet to 
encounter a stupid problem. I then think in terms of the 
general principles I have been taught and apply them. The 
biggest  of these principles is honesty with self and others, 
moderation and balance, and virtuousness. More often than not, 
there is no specific answer to the question, and so I will 
share my thoughts about how to decide. These include advice 
like "Be honest with them". I list the pros and cons of the 
options maybe. I usually tell them to weigh the options and 
decide on their own, because they know more about it. During 
all of this, I try to be encouraging. Indeed, sometimes they 
already know the answer and need someone to reason it out to, 
so that they are assured that their thoughts are not as stupid 
as they fear. Keep all of this in mind, and you'll probably do 
well.